February 9, 2011 § Leave a comment
Everyone talks about positive people, things etc. and I fully agrees that one should have a positive approach in every aspect of life. But I think there also need to think about negatives also. In maths, there is a rule of multiplication (X). If we multiply two negative values than resultant will be a positive value. Does this rule applies to real life too? We need to check it out.
What will happen when two negative persons comes in contact of each other. If they become friends then math’s addition rule will apply and resultant will be more negative. But if they becomes foes then naturally, both will try to find out negative things of each other and will criticise it. This criticism could lead to improvements also. One must work on criticism and try to overcome the situation. Ultimately both will improve if the criticizing competition have right direction.
If we have such persons around then we must start analyzing their criticism and try to improve rather than getting annoyed. But if the person trying to spread misleading things then appropriate action is necessary else others will analyse it wrongly way. One good way is not to give any points for criticism and if anyone got points for criticism then I think we can overcome by above solution.
February 2, 2011 § Leave a comment
Few years back when I was doing PGDCA, I learnt a great lesson on first day. C++ teacher asked a question for testing IQ levels of students. He drawn a line on white board and told us to make that line small without touching it. Many students tried before me, but I gave the solution. I drew a bigger line parallel to existing line. So naturally the other line became small.
Here I realised that if we want to grow bigger than others, We have scale fast and grow bigger than others. I always follow this rule in my life. But when I see around I find most of the people are trying cut or rub out the lines of others, so that they become big. These people are always busy in criticising others rather than acknowledging the achievements of others and studying them.
I think we should always try to develop and enhance our qualities to become big. I think introspection and good reading materials can definitely help us in this direction. So don’t wait, start shaping your personality.
Mahindraa P Tribhuwan
September 26, 2010 § Leave a comment
“Believing in every body is dangerous but believing in no body is too dangerous” these words have great meaning. Now a days majority of people don’t believe easily any one but may believe some ones who passes their benckmarks. These benchmarks may be tough or easy, it varies person to person. I believe that TRUST is first step to HELP anybody. If we don’t believe in people then how could we help them, help society?
The Icons of our society should realise, understand, trust the people and guide them to right path of success. I think Icons of our society need to be like Light Houses who gives ray of light in dark conditions.